DMFK words....

"Semua anak dilahirkan pintar, tetapi yang memberi impak ialah cara kita merangsang mereka. Ibu bapa mesti mempunyai misi jelas iaitu menanam tekad membentuk masa depan anak"

Dato' Dr. Hj. Mohd Fadzilah Kamsah-Pakar Motivasi

Can I Borrow RM25?

Got this from my group, although I have received this before, but we tend to forget....hope this article will help us remember our 'loved ones' always....

A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her 5-year old son waiting for her at the door.

SON: 'Mummy, may I ask you a question?'

MUM: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the woman.

SON: 'Mummy, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the woman said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

MUM: 'If you must know, I make RM 50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Mummy, may I please borrow RM 25?'

The mother was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down, and started to think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that RM 25 and he really didn't ask for money very often . The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' She asked.

'No Mummy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the woman. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the RM 25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you Mummy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The woman saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the mother grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Mummy, I have RM 50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'

The mother was crushed. She put his arms around her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that RM 50 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

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Anak adalah Amanah

"Setiap anak itu dilahirkan mengikut fitrah (suci & bersih), maka ibubapanya yang menjadikannya sama ada Yahudi, Nasrani atau Majusi." (riwayat Bukhari & Muslim)

Anak adalah amanah dari Allah. Permata hati kita ini amat memerlukan didikan, jagaan dan perhatian daripada kita. Anak juga merupakan sebahagian ujian daripada Allah. Allah menguji kesabaran kita mendidik mereka.

Dewasa ini, didikan yang patut diberikan kepada anak-anak adalah berbeza berbanding bagaimana kita dididik oleh ibu bapa kita dahulu. Kesabaran dalam mendidik anak-anak diuji dengan kerenahnya seawal hari pertama kelahiran hingga meningkat dewasa. Apatah lagi apabila mereka menjenguk usia remaja.

Mendidik anak juga bukanlah perkara yang mudah, jom kongsi petua dan tips untuk anak mencapai kecermerlangan di dunia dan akhirat.